How to Create the Best Homeschool Goals for Your Family

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Imagine you’re about to explore an extensive, unknown forest. It’s exciting but also a bit scary because you don’t know what’s ahead. 

Without a map or compass, it’s easy to get lost in the trees, unsure which path to take. The journey of homeschooling a child with special needs can often feel like navigating this vast, unknown forest.

Establishing homeschool goals is like having a map and compass—tools that offer direction and clarity in an otherwise uncertain terrain.

With these tools, you know where to go and what to do. It helps you feel confident and makes the adventure a lot more fun!

So, as we start our teaching adventure, let’s ensure we have our map ready. This way, we can face any challenge and have a great time learning together!

Short-Term vs. Long-Term Goals: The Power of Both

Imagine your homeschooling journey as a road trip. Short-term goals are like the landmarks you aim to see along the way, while long-term goals are the final destination you have in mind. 

Both have their unique benefits and when combined, they create a fulfilling and enriched journey.

Benefits of Short-Term Goals

  • Immediate Feedback: Just as you feel excited about seeing a landmark, achieving short-term goals offers quick rewards and boosts confidence.
  • Motivation: These goals keep the energy up and provide a sense of accomplishment.
  • Flexibility: Easier to adjust based on the child’s current needs or progress.

Examples of Short-Term Homeschool Goals

  • Completing a 5-piece puzzle independently this week.
  • Engaging in a 10-minute conversation with a peer once this month.
  • Following a 3-step instruction without reminders this week.

Benefits of Long-Term Goals

  • Direction: Like a compass, they guide the broader objectives of the homeschooling journey.
  • Sense of Purpose: Knowing the bigger picture keeps the vision clear and inspiring.
  • Growth Measurement: You can see how much your child has evolved and learned over time.

Examples of Long Term Homeschool Goals:

  • Reading a 3rd-grade reading level book independently by the end of the year.
  • Developing and maintaining a friendship with a peer over six months.
  • Mastering a life skill, such as preparing a basic meal or using public transportation with minimal assistance.

By setting both short-term and long-term goals, you create a balanced approach to homeschooling. It’s like having a roadmap with both exciting stops along the way and a clear final destination.

For children with special needs, this blend ensures they remain engaged and motivated while always moving forward on their unique learning journey.

The SMART Framework for Homeschooling Goals

Imagine setting up a treasure hunt for your child. You wouldn’t just say, “Find the treasure!” Instead, you’d give clear, achievable clues that lead to a final, rewarding prize. 

The SMART framework is similar, guiding us in setting clear and achievable goals. Each letter stands for a goal trait. 

– S for Specific Goals:

Goals should be clear and specific. Think about what you want to accomplish and why it’s important.

Example of a goal being specific:

Instead of “I want my child to read better,” a specific goal might be, “I want my child to read ten new words from their language arts workbook by next month.”

– M for Measurable Goals:

You should be able to track the progress and measure the outcome.

Example of a measurable goal: 

My child will practice counting with visual aids for 15 minutes daily.

– A for Attainable Goals:

Goals should be realistic, considering the abilities and needs of the child. Stretch them a bit, but ensure they’re achievable.

Example of an attainable goal: 

If your child struggles with fine motor skills, a goal might be: My child will button their own shirt halfway by the end of the month.

– R for Relevant Goals:

The goal should matter and support broader long-term objectives.

Example of a relevant goal: 

(Since my child is interested in animals) We will focus on animal-related reading materials to enhance his reading skills.

T for Time-bound Goals:

Goals should have a deadline or a defined time frame. This creates urgency and focus.

Example of a Time-bound Goal: 

By the end of this academic year, my child will successfully complete three hands-on science experiments related to everyday household items.


Implementing the SMART framework into your goals ensures the journey is structured yet flexible to each child’s unique needs. 

By being clear on what’s expected, you set the path for achievement and cultivate a learning environment where you celebrate success at every step.

Understanding Your Child’s Needs Before Setting Yearly Goals

Think of your child as a unique puzzle. Each piece represents something different about them. To complete the puzzle, we need to understand each piece well. 

Here’s how we can do that:

– Assessing your child’s strengths and weaknesses

It’s like looking at both sides of a coin. One side might show what they’re really good at, like a math whiz, or draw amazing pictures. 

The other side might show things they find a bit tricky. That’s okay! 

Everyone has things they’re working on. It helps to know both sides so we can cheer them on for what they do well and help them where they need it.

– Recognizing unique challenges

Everyone faces some bumps on the road. For some kids, it might be harder to sit still, or maybe they find reading more challenging because they have dyslexia

It’s important to understand these particular challenges. This way, we can find ways for our children to achieve personal growth at their own pace. 

– Identifying passions and interests

Do they love dinosaurs? Are they fascinated by stars? Or maybe they can’t stop talking about their favorite superhero. 

Finding out what sparks your child’s interest is like finding a hidden treasure. When we know what they love, we can include it in our lessons. This makes learning feel like playtime!

So, as we work to fit the pieces of our child’s puzzle together, we get a clearer picture of who they are. With that knowledge, our teaching journey becomes a shared adventure of discovery!


What Types of Homeschool Goals Do You Need? 

Let’s think of homeschooling like building a treehouse. It’s not just about nailing planks together; each treehouse section has its own purpose. In homeschooling, we have different goals to create a strong and happy learning space for our children.

#1 Academic Goals

These are like the walls of our treehouse. They give it structure and protection. You should set goals for academic subject areas like reading, writing, social studies, and math. Also, consider your child’s skill and grade level. 

Academic Goal Examples:

  • Reading a new book every week.
  • Learning 5 new math skills every month.
  • Writing a journal entry daily.

#2 Social and Emotional Goals

Think of these as the windows, doors, and ladder of our treehouse. They allow our children to connect with the outside world, make friends, and understand their emotions.

Working on social skills helps them make friends, share, and be kind. You can include character goals here, too.

Examples of Social and Emotional Goals:

  • Playing a group game once a week.
  • Talking about their feelings after a movie or story.
  • Practicing saying “please” and “thank you” at least twice per day

#3 Practical Life Skills Goals

These are like the foundation of our treehouse. They support everything else and are essential for day-to-day life. 

Life skills equip our child to manage basic tasks and become independent.

Life Skills Goals Examples:

  • Practice tying their shoes twice a day.
  • Preparing a simple snack independently at least once per week.
  • Cooking a meal from start to finish at least once per month. 

Building a treehouse or homeschooling isn’t just about one thing. It’s about combining different parts to make something amazing. 

Focusing on academic, social, emotional, and life skills goals can create a well-rounded learning experience for our special needs child.


Tips for Writing Your Family’s Homeschool Goals

#1 Answer These Questions: 

  1. What are your educational goals for each child?
  2. What would you like to see each child accomplish in this homeschool year?
  3. How will your child achieve their objectives?
  4. What’s your child’s goal for the year?
  5. What are the homeschooling laws in your state?
  6. Who will help with the daily chores?
  7. What are your child’s favorite subjects or interests?
  8. What does your child want to do once they graduate high school?

#2 Make it a Family Affair

Schedule family time to get everyone on the same page. Creating and setting expectations as a family eliminates confusion and stress for everyone.

It is essential to include the entire family in writing the homeschooling goals. This way, everyone has a part in making the day go smoothly. 

Every homeschooling family is unique and brings new challenges and unexpected events.

#3 Empower Your Child to Create Goals

As your children learn and grow, allow them to take more responsibility with a self-paced or self-led approach to their lessons. 

Every child has a special gift and talent. Allowing them to participate in setting their goals gives them an opportunity to shine.

Goal setting involves sharing the responsibility while empowering the child. Starting young will help young adults learn to set goals for themselves. This is a life skill that will carry them through adulthood.

#4 Things Will Happen – Be Flexible

A weekly schedule is a great way to help stay on track. But keep in mind that every day can bring unplanned interruptions. This can mean you have to work around the overall goals for that day. However, this doesn’t mean that the day is ruined. 

#5 You are Not the Jones’

Remember that goal setting in your homeschool can look different from other homeschooling families. Your family has different preferences, priorities, and abilities. Base your expectations on your own family.

Have you created a homeschool mission statement for your family? Keep this big picture of your homeschool life at the top of your mind. 

#6 Accept Help and Feedback

Don’t shrug off your spouse’s and children’s suggestions because they see things differently than you. You may be the primary educator and carry the most household responsibilities, but that doesn’t mean you must carry the load yourself. 

This would be an excellent time to share your needs and desires with your family, including housework, shopping, schooling, and even having time to take a day off. Family life should be enjoyable for everyone, including you. 


Tracking and Adjusting Your Family’s Homeschool Goals

Imagine you’re sailing a boat. To reach your destination, you check your compass regularly, adjust the sails when the wind changes, and celebrate when you cross milestones. 

Similarly, in homeschooling, we need to keep an eye on our goals and make changes when needed to ensure a smooth and successful journey.

– Keeping a progress journal

Like marking the spots on a map where we’ve been, a progress journal helps us see how far we’ve come. It’s a place to jot down what’s working, what’s challenging, and all the little successes along the way.

Each day or week, note the topics covered, the achievements, and any areas where your child found difficulties. It’s also a great spot for fun memories or special comments your child might have made.

– The importance of monthly check-ins

Think of it as checking the compass on our boat. Monthly check-ins help ensure we’re on the right path. They allow us to see if our big goals are still fitting or if we need to make tweaks.

Sit down at the end of each month and review the progress journal. 

Discuss with your child…

  • What they enjoyed most
  • What they found tough
  • Any new interests they might want to explore
  • Ways to break goals that are too big into smaller goals

– Celebrating achievements and adjusting as necessary

Like sailors cheer when they reach a landmark, celebrating achievements boosts confidence and motivation. But, if the winds change or there’s a hurdle, adjusting our goals ensures we stay on course.

Celebrate big and small wins, from mastering a new word to completing a book. Your child may need extra time to achieve that first goal, but every small step is important to celebrate. 

If you notice something isn’t working or if there’s a new challenge, take a moment to reassess and adjust the goals to suit your family’s needs better.

In our homeschooling journey, like sailing, keeping track, adjusting, and celebrating is essential. With regular checks and the willingness to make changes, we ensure our course is always set up for success.

Great Resources for Support 

Imagine you’re putting together a giant jigsaw puzzle. You may need a friend or a family member to help you find the right pieces or to give you a tip. 

Homeschooling is like that puzzle, and there are many helpers out there who can guide us. You don’t have to do this all alone. Here’s who they are:


Special Education Tutors

Think of them as puzzle experts. They understand how kids learn and can give special tips for kids with unique needs. With their advice, tricky subjects can become more accessible and more fun. Would your child benefit from special education tutoring


– Online Resources and Support Groups 

These are like big puzzle clubs where many people share resources. We offer tools, articles, and more right here on our website. 

Plus, we have a Facebook group for parents of special needs kids.


– Connecting With Other Homeschooling Parents

Have you ever swapped puzzle strategies with a friend? It’s the same idea! 

Other homeschooling parents can share what worked for them and what didn’t. Together, you can swap stories, ideas, and even materials.


– Doctors and therapists

These are the people who know the details of the puzzle’s picture. They can tell us more about our child’s health and how they grow. 

Their advice can help make the homeschooling journey smoother.


– Integrating technology into the learning journey

Think of tech tools as special magnifying glasses or puzzle organizers. With apps, games, and websites, learning can become interactive and tailored for our child. 

Plus, they can make challenging subjects feel like a fun game!

Remember, putting together a puzzle is always easier and more enjoyable with some help. Having these helpers to guide and support us on the homeschooling journey is great.

Homeschooling Challenges and Solutions

Every adventure has its set of challenges, and homeschooling is no different. Think of it as a scenic road trip: sometimes, there are unexpected detours or rough patches, but with the right tools and mindset, you can navigate and continue your journey. 

Here, we’ll explore some common challenges you may face when setting and working towards homeschooling goals, along with handy solutions to smoothen the road ahead.


– Challenge: Overwhelming Expectations

Sometimes, in the eagerness to provide the best, parents might set too many goals, leading to feeling overwhelmed or setting the bar too high for the child.


It’s essential to prioritize. Choose 3-5 primary goals to focus on and add others gradually. Remember, it’s about quality, not quantity.

– Challenge: Difficulty in Maintaining Consistency

Keeping up with daily routines and schedules can be tricky, especially when life throws curveballs.


Flexibility is key. While having a routine is beneficial, be prepared to adjust. And if a day doesn’t go as planned, don’t stress. Tomorrow is a new day to get back on track.

– Challenge: Doubting Your Ability

Homeschooling is a significant responsibility, and it’s natural to sometimes question if you’re doing enough or doing it right.


Seek support groups, attend homeschooling workshops, or connect with experienced homeschooling parents. Sharing your concerns and learning from others can offer reassurance.

– Challenge: Struggling to Measure Progress

Not all progress is immediately visible, leading parents to wonder if their approach is effective.


Besides academic achievements, focus on non-tangible growth like improved confidence, enhanced curiosity, or better emotional regulation. Celebrate these small but essential victories.

– Challenge: Balancing Multiple Children’s Needs

When homeschooling more than one child, especially with varying special needs, ensuring you meet every child’s unique requirements can be challenging.


Consider group activities that cater to all their levels, use individualized learning tools, and, if possible, set separate times for one-on-one learning.

Read our tips on homeschooling multiple children


– Challenge: Keeping Your Child Engaged

Sometimes, your child might not show interest or enthusiasm despite the best materials and intentions.


  • Switch things up! Incorporate more hands-on activities, field trips, or interactive tools. 
  • Find out what sparks your child’s interest and integrate that into the learning process.

Every challenge faced on this homeschooling journey can be transformed into an opportunity for growth and learning for both the parent and the child. 

Armed with solutions and a positive mindset, every bump can lead to a better view of the horizon. Remember, the journey is as significant as the destination, and you can navigate it beautifully.

Your Homeschool Journey

Imagine the journey of planting a garden. Initially, we lay out where each plant should go, but as they grow, one needs more sun and another more shade. 

We adjust, move them around, and lean on fellow gardeners for advice. Eventually, we see our garden flourish, each plant reaching its full potential.

Setting and adjusting homeschool goals works the same way. Laying out our plans provides direction. Yet, as we move along, understanding our child’s growth and changes means we might have to tweak our goals, ensuring they get the best learning environment suited to them. 

And remember, just as gardeners lean on each other, the community of educators, therapists, and fellow homeschooling parents is a treasure trove of advice, support, and resources. You’re never alone on this journey.

Lastly, the rewards are profound as you watch your special needs child grow, learn, and thrive in a homeschool environment tailored just for them. 

The smiles, the aha moments, and the joy in their eyes will be constant reminders. 

The dedication, hard work, and the love poured into this homeschooling journey is truly worth every moment.

Keep planting, nurturing, and adjusting. Your garden – your child’s learning journey – is bound to be vibrant, beautiful, and uniquely theirs.


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And hey, we’re all in this together. I’d love to hear about your experiences, your challenges, and of course, your homeschool goals! 

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